7 Habits of Highly Successful Dating
by: Bonnie Lee
1) Don't look at other women
While dating, focus your attention on your date and make her
feel as if she matters the most to you compared to other women.
Let's face it, women loved to be showered with attention and pampered
by her man. If not for you, who else other than her immediate
family members.
2) Make her feel like a queen.
On the first date, buy her dinner to show you value her company.
This will also reduce any tension between two people meeting for
the first time. Make her feel special. Women find this absolutely
irresistible. Build a bond of fun and excitement between you and
be romantic. Subsequently you can buy her gifts when the relationship
progresses but never ask or even hint sexual favors in return.
Women get appalled and turned off by any suggestion of sex initially.
3) Be yourself.
Don't exaggerate or boast your credentials, successes, etc.
Make the other party feel at home so that she does not feel pressured
to impress or lie to you. Sincerity is the best policy. Nobody
feels more comfortable around people who are genuine and sincere.
4) Don't ever talk about your past relationships.
Don't keep harping on them. This is a no-no and a sure turn-off.
You will only project the impression that you are unable to let
go and continue to give a present date a chance to get to know
you better in a positive manner.
5) Treat your first date as if going for an "interview".
You want to impress and let the other person know your qualities
and characteristics for a life partner. If you are not ready to
be in a commitment, let her know straight away so that you do
not mislead her into false hopes. But be cautious not to boast
or exaggerate stuffs that are beyond you. Your deepest communication
to women is carried out by your personal style and your level
of confidence. Nobody feels more at ease than being with a confident
man.
6) Don't keep splurging and live like a millionaire unless
you are one yourself.
During the dating process, be careful how you handle money
and spend within your own capacity. You don't want a bank account
of only 1 figure left after several dates. If you cannot afford
it, go for somewhere cheaper or try less expensive alternatives.
It is most undesirable if after several dates, you find that both
of you are almost broke or worse, had to borrow to continue your
lavish lifestyle. If your partner is in a habit of borrowing money
from you, drop her or him immediately.
7) Be observant.
While dating for a while, you can conclude if this person is
suitable for you for life or not. During dating, keep both eyes
wide open and look for tell tale signs like a persistent borrower,
in debt, etc but after marriage, keep a close eye and forgive.
The best time to date is during high school or undergraduate
years as you are young with no "life baggage" but you
can also date if you are single again. Marriage is meant to last
for better or for worse till death do us part. But enjoy dating
while you can and live life to the fullest.
About The Author: Bonnie Lee holds a successful home based
business besides being in a satisfying relationship. While not
working, she enjoys precious quality time with her spouse. She
is the author is this article and ebook "41 Mistakes Men
Make in Bed". For motivation, read relationship success at
her website http://www.tsldesigns.com/ebooks/41mistakes
eMail: info@tsldesigns.com
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